Pattaya Girls; Sex & Dating Fun

There's no denying that Pattaya girls are the main attraction that draws men to this particular city in Thailand. There is nowhere else in Thailand to compete with this place when it comes to the girls that will happily entertain you, and they are the reason for so many return visitors...

Yes, there are some decent beaches here and there, there is fantastic weather for most of the year, there is lots of tasty food and there are all manner of other attractions to keep you interested, but it is the girls more than any other factor that really puts Pattaya on top of the list of places to visit for a fun-packed adventure or two!

This section of the website is focused on providing you with information about how to meet these girls in the bars, gogos, discos and similar venues, and also on what sort of experience you can expect from them.

If the beer-bars and a-go-go scene does not interest you, or if you are intending to meet a lady that won't expect a payment in the morning, it's worth having a look at the the online dating sites for finding your lady-friends.

I've given specific advice about successfully dating Thai girls for the long-term success, and the very first thing to note about that is that you shouldn't even consider anything long-term with any of the lovely ladies in Pattaya - it's just too risky. However, if you keep your relationships here strictly on a short-term fun basis, you'll have nothing but good times in Pattaya.

Working Girls in Pattaya

Back to the working girls... it's not just the sheer number of these ladies that stands out; they also have a genuinely friendlier attitude towards foreign visitors than the girls in Bangkok, Phuket and elsewhere. Pattaya girls also provide their services at much lower prices than the working girls in other areas of Thailand!

The best looking girls in Bangkok or Phuket tend to be a little more business-like in their illicit engagements with tourists and many will refuse to go with anyone for longer than an hour or so. For that hour of entertainment, you can easily be expected to pay as much as a Pattaya girl will ask for an entire day!

The Pattaya Girlfriend experience is not as common as it once was, but there are still a lot of girls who will happily stay with you for your entire holiday if that is your wish. Be warned that these sirens will use that time to try and ensnare you by making you fall in love with them!

The majority of the girls in Pattaya come here in search of work, and they usually originate from the poor rural northeast area of Thailand, a region known as ‘Isaan’ (pronounced E-San). Many of the western guys who have gotten married to Thai girls have done so with Isaan girls. There's a long standing rule in Thailand which states that you should never ask a married western guy where he met his Thai wife... because the answer is so often a bar in Pattaya or Bangkok!

Isaan ladies tend to be a little darker skinned than most Thai girls, they're usually very petite, and they often have long dark hair right down to the middle of their backs. It's a look that a lot of western guys love, but Thai men don't go for it at all!

It's up to your own personal preference as to whether or not you like your women to have darker or fairer skin but, in any case, you needn’t be concerned as there are still plenty of fair skinned girls to choose from. You will certainly find someone that catches your eye and you will most probably feel like a kid in a candy shop with all the options available to you!

Out of an estimated 30,000 or so Pattaya girls working the nightlife bars, a-go-gos, coyotes, and discos, there is no shortage of girls of all sorts to choose from... but things are changing as modern technology now allows girls to discreetly meet western guys online without the need to risk being exposed as a sex worker.

There are tens of thousands of Thai girls searching for romantic adventures with western men online. You can easily find good-looking girls for casual sex and fun times, or someone suitable for something more serious on my:

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You will even be able to find some Russian girls in Pattaya... although I don’t personally recommend these ladies due to the very hefty prices that they charge, and the unfriendly attitude that some display.

One thing that a lot of Pattaya girls have in common is a baby that's being taken care of by their parents in their hometowns. This is quite a common thing and is often the reason why they are working in the oldest of professions. Babies aren't cheap after all, and with an absent father and expensive bills to pay, the money has to come from somewhere.

A quick roundup of things to know

If you're a little pressed for time and just want to know the key points about what  to expect from Pattaya girls, these will help:

  • The Fun Factor - you'll have different experiences with the ladies that you'll meet here depending on their preferred method of extracting your cash from you! I've provided links below for more info on this important consideration.
  • The Risk Factor - I have found that Pattaya is a very safe place if you behave in a respectful manner. If you are an idiot or a loudmouth thug, I'd go elsewhere or you'll end up upsetting the wrong person at some point.
  • Expenses - the P4P scene comes at a much lower cost than in the west, and especially so if you intend to spend a few days with a lady. In Pattaya you'll find far more opportunities for this sort of thing than anywhere else in Thailand.
  • Emotions - whilst the threat of violence is minuscule for well behaved guys, the threat of falling head of heels in love is very real. Don't think that it can't happen to you if you've never experienced the tender overtures of these sirens.
  • Comparisons - the sheer size of the Pattaya nightlife scene ensures that nowhere else in Thailand, or the world for that matter, has as many ladies that will be delighted to entertain you.
Pattaya gogo girlsSome Pattaya a-go-go girls.

Sex in Pattaya; Cultural Differences with the West

As with all Thai girls, Pattaya girls have some quite unique cultural values. Believe it or not, some of them can be quite shy! Thai girls are not raised in a way that leads naturally to an outgoing extroverted character, and the nature of sex in Pattaya is representative of the extent of the prostitution scene there - it doesn't represent the more traditional areas of the country.

Regular Thai ladies do not jump straight into bed with western guys at the first opportunity - contrary to popular belief!

If you decide to spend some time with a Pattaya lady, and you find her to be very outspoken, outgoing and confident, it's a sign that she may have been working in a bar for a while, and gotten used to liaising with westerners.

The shyness stems from Thailand actually being, believe it or not, a rather conservative country. Whilst there is some acceptance amongst Thai society that a bar-girl might be working in the P4P sex industry out of necessity, e.g. to send money home to a poor family, it is certainly not seen as being anything other than the lowest of occupations.

If you don't believe me on this, try taking a photograph of a girl performing on stage at an a-go-go bar; you will certainly be ‘encouraged’ to switch off your camera right away!

The girls working in such places tend to be very concerned that their pictures might find their way onto the internet and be seen by someone from their hometown. Every bar girl will want to keep her occupation a secret from the folk back home - even if they already have strong suspicions of what she does for a living.

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Pattaya Girls; a few Words of Warning!

You need to tread really carefully with these girls. No matter how hard you try to avoid it, these ladies will work their magic and be tugging at your emotions when the time comes to say goodbye. After your first week in Pattaya you will most likely find one particular girl that you like above all others, and you will probably spend the rest of your holiday with her.

Be especially careful here, she will probably want to see you off at the airport, and she will definitely have tears in her eyes when the two of you part company. It is all too easy to start a long distance relationship from that point on, but I’m afraid that the success rate of these relationships is extremely low.

If you are the sort of man that can switch off his emotions, you're a lucky man indeed. Drop me an email and let me know the secret! My general advice is to buy a new telephone/sim card when you arrive in Pattaya, and bin it on departure. It makes for a nice clean break when you have thrown away your only means of contact with the girls you meet here.

Why would you want to end contact? Because as wonderful as your experience undoubtedly was, the chances are that it is best left in Thailand. Your girl's sadness at losing you may well have been genuine, it probably was if you felt it was, but the whole experience is based on a bit of a fantasy.

Take your holiday romances for what they are and enjoy yourself. That's not to say that a full-time relationship or even a marriage can't work, it can, but you do need to be aware of the huge culture gap. You need to make sure that your girl's dreams are the same as yours and, sadly, that is not often the case.

Pattaya bar girlsSome beer bars and girls in Pattaya.

You will no doubt be aware of the large number of ‘Thai girl done me wrong’ stories out there, and many are completely true. It's not that Pattaya girls are morally corrupt (although a life of bar work will take its toll), it is usually necessity that is driving their actions. This is especially true if she has poor parents and a baby of her own that needs taking care of.

In Thailand, where there is not much of a welfare system, and women take their family responsibilities extremely seriously. Sacrificing their innocence in order to take care of the family is not a step that they want to take, it is a step that necessity sometimes demands.

In these circumstances you should expect that a lady will have little concern for the emotional turmoil that she may or may not be inflicting on a western guy who really should know better - especially if the girl is beautiful and half his age! She will say what she must, to earn what she needs, and the sheer number of suicides in Pattaya that occur when reality kicks is astounding - so don't let it happen to you!

Pattaya Girls; working girl Categories

Obviously people can't be put into boxes but, broadly speaking, there are five types of working girls in Pattaya (six if you include masseuses, but they are discussed in the 'massage' section).

Each type of girl has her own unique strategy for making her work pay:

Pattaya Bar Girls
These ladies can be found working in a variety of different types of bars and, as you would expect, there is some difference in the approach that these girls will take with regard to bringing a smile to your face. Generally speaking though, there are some similarities in the type of relationship that you might build with these Pattaya girls. Click the first link to find out more about bar girls.

Pattaya Gogo Girls
Want to know what to expect from a gogo girl? Click the link to find out how the financial strategy of Pattaya gogo girls differs to that of other working girls. If it is sheer physical beauty that you are looking for then these ladies offer you your best option… and you certainly get to see the merchandise before you buy! This page will tell you all that you need to know about these girls, and what type of experience they will likely offer to you.

Pattaya Beach Girls
Beach girls are one of two groups of working girls who are commonly referred to as 'freelancers'. They may, or may not, be working entirely under their own steam. Some have a male 'guardian' that will need to be dealt with (paid). Amongst all the Pattaya girls that you form an attachment to, this option is the most risky. This page explains those extra risk factors.

Nightclub Girls
If you are getting a little sick and tired of the condescending attitude from the Western girls that you meet on a night out back home, the girls that you will meet in a Pattaya nightclub might be just what the doctor ordered! They are often full-time students, or even girls with regular low-paid work, who need a bit of an income top up. These Pattaya girls tend to work less often and sometimes only on weekends.

Pattaya Escorts
The key selling point for these Thai call girls is the discretion that they offer their customers. They will happily cater for a wide range of clients and fantasies. Prices are higher, but the services tend to be more high-end in terms of quality. They are popular with couples and with disabled clients and anyone that might want a different option to picking up girls in the bars and similar venues.


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